feat: enrich SQL bind errors with node span and near-sql context

[KKould]

What problem does this PR solve?

Upgraded sqlparser-rs to support more precise error location reporting where possible, improving interaction experience

example:

column: `missing_col` not found
--> line 1
1 | select id, missing_col from t_bind_span
  |

support for

• DatabaseError::CastFail
• DatabaseError::InvalidColumn
• DatabaseError::ColumnNotFound
• DatabaseError::InvalidTable
• DatabaseError::FunctionNotFound
• DatabaseError::ParametersNotFound
• DatabaseError::NotNull

chore:

• add where_by_index.slt and stream_distinct.slt for explain test
• support multi-statement execution in run() and transaction run()

Code changes

• Has Rust code change
• Has CI related scripts change

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Note for reviewer