Nodejs process doesnt close after stopping

[julianmesa-gitkraken]

Fixes and improvements:

• Releases ThreadSafeFunction callbacks on stop to prevent nodejs event loop from persisting.
• Improves handling of NSFW options and lifecycle:
  • Enhances robustness in options processing by validating error callback and excluded paths.
  • Ensures proper thread joining and queue management during object destruction to prevent potential crashes.
  • Refines error messages for clarity and user understanding, providing more informative feedback in case of failures.
  • Adds checks to ensure queue and interface are valid before calling methods on them.
• Refactors excluded path handling and validation:
  • Improves excluded path validation by normalizing paths before comparison, ensuring accurate subdirectory checks.
  • Updates debounceMS validation to include an upper bound, preventing excessively long debounce intervals.
  • Provides a more robust and consistent way of retrieving excluded paths, handling cases where the underlying implementation might not support it.
  • Fixes a bug where file modification detection was not working correctly due to incorrect time comparison.